Both summarizing previous comments and testing this myself:
    1)  I hit "Reply All", and
    2)  I hit   Options > Format > Plain Text Only   (using Thunderbird)
Hopefully, this will do it.  (If you don't get this let me know.)
AndyB
Sandy Olson wrote:
> It's always gone back to sender when 'reply' is hit; to the list when 
> 'reply to all' is hit...at least on my computer for years and years!
>
> SandyO
> CH #1146